Sunday 29 March 2009

Life in Stops and Starts

by Thomas Heng

Life is Worth Living When We...

Stop Venting and Start Listening
Stop Preaching and Start Learning
Stop Complaining and Start Reflecting
Stop Being Right and Start Being Authentic
Stop Procrastinating and Start Taking Action
Stop Having Doubts and Start Acting in Faith
Stop Having a Job and Start Having Fun with it
Stop Expecting Relationships and Start Growing Friendships

Thursday 19 March 2009

On Maturity

by Thomas Heng

Maturity is the ability to sufficiently distance oneself from one's faults, and indeed from one's strengths as well, so that oneself and others can benefit from the collective wisdom of objectivity.

Maturity is having the strength to relate the most painful of truths directly to the one who benefits most from such revelations, without causing unnecessary collateral damage or hurt to others.

Maturity need not mean that one deprives oneself (and others) of one's innate sense of humour about the things and events in this world, inane as that humour may well be!

Maturity is the clarity of oneself to remain focused and committed to the primary priority of one's essence of being, in relation those of others, so that what has been created remains a matter worth cherishing and striving towards.

Maturity comes from the gift that is Wisdom; apart from Wisdom what remains more often than not turns to Cynicism.

Wisdom, the mother of Maturity, is the craft of reconciling all known possibilities within one's scope of experience towards a fundamental decision that one can genuinely sustain through the course of time and space, so that once that decision is made, there is little or no need for review -- the result brings Joy, Hope, and Peace to oneself amidst the fickle vicissitudes of life.

Sunday 15 March 2009

The Truth of Being A Christian

I first came across this little poem about five years ago, and I believe this will be meaningful to you if you are seeking to grow spiritually during your journey in this world, no matter what values you currently abide by.
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When I say..... "I am a Christian" 
I'm not shouting I'm clean livin" 
I'm whispering "I was lost" 
Now I'm found and I'm forgiven. 

When I say... "I am a Christian" 
I don't speak of this with pride. 
I'm confessing that I stumble 
and need CHRIST to be my guide. 

When I say.... "I am a Christian" 
I'm not trying to be strong. 
I'm professing that I'm weak 
and need HIS strength to carry on. 

When I say.... "I am a Christian" 
I'm not bragging of success. 
I'm admitting I have failed 
and need God to clean my mess. 

When I say...."I am a Christian" 
I'm not claiming to be perfect, 
My flaws are far too visible 
but, God believes I am worth it. 

When I say... "I am a Christian" 
I still feel the sting of pain, 
I have my share of heartaches 
So I call upon His name. 

When I say...."I am a Christian" 
I"m not holier than thou, 
I'm just a simple sinner 
who received God's good grace, somehow. 

Sunday 1 March 2009

Championship Manager 2008 - Brighton 2009/10

One of my all-time favourite games is Championship Manager, and I have to be honest: most times the teams I manage don't really get to see much success (I usually manage teams in the lower divisions, and in obscure leagues such as S-League. I've gone from managing Balestier Khalsa to the group stages of the AFC Champions League, to being sacked at the beginning of the 2008/09 season after saving Leicester City from relegation to League One in my current game using CM2008. 

After over a month in the managerial wilderness applying for every vacancy I could, I was fortunate enough to be given a chance to save Brighton & Hove Albion from relegation to League Two. With the assistance of reinforcements, 26 of them to be exact, and a clear out of 9 incumbents, the team managed to place 16th in 2008/09, and claimed top spot in League One pipping Luton on the final day of the season.


Among those who shone in the title-winning season were strikers De Paula (Ponferradina, Spain lower leagues), Nacho Novo (Rangers), Junior Agogo (Nottingham Forest), and Ahn Jun-Hwan (Suwon Bluewings) , who contributed 48 goals between them. Incidentally all of them were acquired for free. 

The midfield was also outstanding, particularly Lloyd Dyer in delivering corners (incumbent), captain Lee Peacock (Swindon, 50k) and consistent Ravid Gazal (Israel, free transfer) pulling their weight. 

In defence, Ferdinando Coppola (Milan, free transfer) put Sam Russell (Rochdale, 100k) in the shade, while Adam Virgo (Celtic, free transfer) and Danny Swailes (MK Dons, $20k) worked well together with incumbents Adam Hinshelwood and Tommy Elphick to form a relatively stable backline.


There was still time for the team to capitulate 0-7 to Bolton in the League Cup two weeks into my tenure, but on hindsight once that loss was out of the lads' systems, they got down to work, cumulating in an impressive 16-match unbeaten run all the way to the final day of the season. Additionally, the club's finances were dealt a massive boost with Hugo Rodallega (Colombia free transfer) sold to Championship side Hull for 500k in the mid-season due to a minimum fee release clause. The sale of Rodallega may yet come back to haunt me as he is currently on a hot streak in the Championship, let's see what next season brings, so watch this space.


The Board has been rather realistic in expecting the team to battle bravely against relegation, but i can assure you their manager isn't resting on his laurels. The 2010/11 season would probably see another overhaul, with another 10 players arriving, 6 of them on a free transfer. Jason Jarrett (Preston) moved from Doncaster for 40k, and is already looking like a capable midfield leader when Peacock is rested. Free transfers Juanfran (Zaragoza) and Cuno Torres (Valencia) bring a Spanish element to the defence, while Tony Criag (ex-Millwall) finally completed his transfer from Premiership side Crystal Palace) for $100k plus 48-month instalments. Also knocking on the doors of the first team are South Korean forwards Lee Dong-Gook (released from Middlesborough), Kyung Ho Chung and Choi Tae-Wook (free transfer) to add a little more pace and variety into the play. Perhaps Christian Roberts (Swindon, free transfer) will make a decent showing this time after seeing his colleagues Peacock and Michael Pook participate in the club's in some measure the past season. 

Thankfully the Board has been kind in agreeing to an additional 850k war chest, not that I am in dire need of funds, but just in case suitable players become available, the team will be prepared to take them in. Conversely, the club will consider all offers for some players should these be forthcoming. In the event that players wish to leave the club despite the success it has achieved thus far, I wouldn't stand in their way. Things are looking up for Brighton in 2010/11, and I can't wait to share more of what happens at the end of the season.